There’s a line we all draw, but can’t see! It’s always there and sometimes we ignore it, even though we shouldn’t! We let people cross more often than not and there are times we don’t even know that they have crossed it until it all blows up!
This line, although invisible, is very important! The line we draw is so we have a point to where we won’t let things go! We won’t let people treat us a certain way without consequence! Sadly most of us have to admit that we ignore the line a lot when it comes to certain people!
Why do we continuously let people cross this line! They give us some bullshit reason or excuse as to why what they do or say is happening and we accept it! These may be very valid reasons but that doesn’t mean that we should just accept them! Are there times where we should just let something that crossed the line go? I am sure there is, but more often than not there is no good reason or excuse to let just it go!
How far are should you let things go? When the person in question is so focused on themselves and spew very valid reasons anyone should be out of sorts and will not even listen to the truth about their actions, how far does it go? It may be little comments here and there, but if every time they talk these comments are made, there is more truth to them than anything. Uncalled for yelling and verbal abuse is not anything anyone should put up with! I don’t care what the reasons are.
If you are having a bad time, do not and I repeat DO NOT take it out on someone else! There is no reason or coming back from that especially when things are constantly drilled into you when these people get upset and take it out on you!
Some people seem to think that the world revolves around them and anything that happens to them has never happened to anyone else! They say we would not understand what they are going through! They claim that a death in the family gives them free range to do anything they want and get away it as they are grieving and you won’t get it! Sadly, practically everyone knows what that is like and it definitely not a good or fun situation!
Everybody handles all situations differently, but there is no excuse to treat people badly! We shouldn’t be letting people cross this line and I know some things happen without us knowing, but once we learn of it we need to d something about it! If you are having a difficult time in your life and you take it our on others then you need to revaluate how you are reacting to this time and handling it! It is perfectly okay to be down and have a few weak moments, but you have to realize what your actions are doing to people around you and adjust accordingly!
Maybe the line should be right next to a wall, so when the cross the line they smash into a wall! Maybe the line would be better at the edge of a cliff so when they cross it, they fall!
Do you have to deal with a few line crossers?
How do you handle them?
What should be done with them?
What do you do if the line crossers are family?
P.S. If you avoid the conflict to keep the peace you start a war within yourself!